Longview: (903) 295-1680 • Carthage: (903) 690-9924 • Marshall: (903) 938-5200 • Winnsboro: (903) 342-9100

Your care to provide support and love to a terminally ill family member or friend can seem like a daunting task.

Here at Heartsway Hospice we will be with you every step of the way.


The patient should feel that he/she is at all times receiving competent, loving
care by all concerned. There are certain signs and events which are likely to
occur and which if anticipated and understood, can be satisfactorily attended
to. We sincerely hope that the following information and suggestions will
make it easier for you to care for your loved one.

  • Take it one moment at a time, one hour at a time, one day at a time.
  • Try to maintain a normal routine.
  • Get enough sleep or at least enough rest.
  • Exercise regularly to relieve stress and tension
  • Eat a balanced diet. Drink plenty of water
  • If possible, postpone making major decisions, like selling your home or changing jobs, until after the first year of grieving.
  • Find creative outlets to express your feelings, such as a journal, art, photography, needlework, or scrapbooking.
  • Write a letter to your loved one telling him or her how you feel.
  • Honor the memory of your loved one by engaging in an activity or project he or she held dear.
  • Start a new family tradition in your loved one’s memory.
  • Think about other times you have experienced a loss and the coping skills used to survive that loss.
  • Allow yourself to feel all feelings – sadness, anger, guilt, helplessness, pain.
  • Cry as much as you want to. Tears help release pain and tension.
  • Forgive yourself for real and imagined transgressions or missed opportunities.
  • Be patient with your grief. Don’t let others hurry you through your grief or tell you how you should feel.
  • Attend a support group or talk to others who have lost a loved one.
  • Seek out your most trusted friends or family for support when you need it. Choose to spend time with those who comfort, sustain, and recharge you.
  • Accept the assistance of your close friends when they offer help. Don’t go it alone.
  • Take a break from your grief and do something fun – try to keep your sense of humor. See a movie, read a book, listen to your favorite music, buy a new album, get a massage.
  • Above all else, take care of yourself.



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Longview Office: 4351 McCann Road, Longview, TX 75605 • Mailing Address: P.O. Box 5608 Longview, TX 75608
Carthage Office: 437 W. Panola St., Carthage, TX 75633 • Marshall Office: 205 East Austin, Marshall TX 75670
Winnsboro Office: 209 East Broadway St., Winnsboro, TX 75494

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